Honestly, You can't judge a girl based on her looks..→
In today’s society we base so much on looks and certain “Standards” that we consider to be the definition of “Beautiful” , But when you judge a girl solely on what she looks on the outside, you don’t give her a chance, you don’t get to know her for who she is as a person, you could be missing a chance to know a great girl, you know? Get to know her thoughts, her like or dislikes, what makes her who she is now, why she thinks the way she does and the list just goes on. Don’t let a girls “Outside Appearance” be the reason you choose to talk to her, talk to her because you genuinely want to know her as a person because in my opinion “Inner Beauty” and a“Beautiful Personality” are what shine the most, it is what keeps you interested in a girl, although looks may attract to a certain extent, they don’t keep a person interested and if they do, it’s only sexually, but you can’t base a relationship off of sex anyways, you know? All she is really asking for is a“Chance” for you to get to know her and accept her for who she is on the intside, not what’s on the outside. Remember “Looks” fade and“Personality” sticks with you your whole life. Judge me as you may, Everyone is entitled to an opinion.
“Just give her a chance and listen to her”
"Standards" for girls→
We often set these “Standards” on girls, society tells them that “Beautiful”is “Big boobs, Big butts, Tons of make-up, Ect.”, What ever happened to“Personality” being beautiful, after all isn’t that what keeps you attracted to someone? I mean some of you might disagree with me, go ahead because you’re entitled to your opinion. But, in my opinion you should love her for who is on the inside, the way she is able to make you happy with the simplest gesture like a smile or a hug and not what she looks like on the outside, you know? With or without make-up she should be beautiful in your eyes if you truly and honestly do love her. A girl’s personality shouldn’t be determined by her “Physical Attributes”, But instead by who she is as a person. the way she treats other’s around her and not judged by the cloth she wears or the make-up that she wears. I don’t know, It’s just something that’s been on mind as of lately.
"She's Waiting"→
Truthfully, she’s just waiting for the guy who will come into her life and show her that “True Love” is “Real”, someone who can deal with her mood swings and still love her, Someone who will be there for her through the toughest moments in the relationship, Someone who will love her even though she may make mistakes here and there, That guy who see’s her flaws, knows her past, accepts that she isn’t perfect, but know she’s trying her best and that’s what matters and still love her for who she is because to him she is beautiful, to him she is perfect just the way she is. She doesn’t even need perfect, she just wants someone who can stick with her through her worst of days, That one guy who respects and supports her decisions because what matters to her truly matters to him. She wants that “Long Lasting” relationship, not some guy who’s going to mess around and play with her heart or emotions because honestly she’s just tired of getting hurt time and time again. She just wants that guy that’s in the relationship to“Stay” and show her that no matter what happens “She” is “Worth It”.
Written In The Stars: Ladies, →
As corny as it may sound, protect your heart because I’ve seen too many girls get hurt by letting the wrong guy into there heart too early. let down your barriers when the guy has shown you that he genuinely cares about you, when he prove to you that his efforts have meaning behind him, When you…
A Young Man's Diary: Date a Guy Who Waits→
Date a guy who waits. Date that someone who has the patience to be with you no matter how long it takes for you to make a decision to give that yes to his proposal. He can never let you go and will do whatever it takes just to have a stable and healthy relationship with you.
He is someone who has…
At first it was fun, you both would talk for hours, then some where between the long talks and sweet words you ended up falling for him and the feelings were mutual, but one day he stopped trying, all you ever asked for was a little time with him but instead you got neglection, you got nights where you would lay awake blaming yourself and wondering what went wrong. You were always there for him when he needed you, but when you needed him, where was he then? You wish that maybe he would just take the time to listen to what you have to say and pay attention to how you feel, but sadly he can’t even do that so you feel so alone at times right? A part of you says let go and move on because you deserve better, but sadly you can’t even listen to yourself because your heart still belongs to him even if his isn’t fully invested into you. Now you’re just hurt and confused because at one point you meant everything to him and now you’re just a memory to him.